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Some children are born with an innate confidence whilst others need a little extra help in that area.
There’s no hard and fast rule when it comes to which child will be confident and which will be shy or less sure of themselves. However, there’s good evidence to support the fact that children who have more responsibilities, are more confident in general.
This private school in Middlesex have a system which helps children learn to find their own inner confidence by celebrating each and every child’s personal strengths. This is vital for children who are at a critical stage of development.
What does being confident look like?
A confident child is a child who is not afraid of new situations or challenges. A confident child is a natural leader, someone who believes that their peers will like them and has no fear of rejection. Thinking of others comes naturally, as does taking responsibility for their own actions.
How to begin
Remember that children who have more responsibilities also tend to be more confident. This is because they see that you as their parent are confident in their abilities – so it follows that they feel secure in themselves.
What kind of responsibilities should I give my child?
As they grow, they can take on extra responsibilities. Small jobs are enough for little children. Here are some ideal smaller tasks which you can encourage your child to take on as a way of helping them to grow in confidence.
- Paying at the shops
- Helping with washing up
- Putting away their own clothes and toys
- Organising games for younger children
- Helping with the shopping
- Making beds
- Weeding the garden
If you show children what to do, they’re capable of far more than most adults realise. Even little children can distinguish a weed from a flower – let them try and you’ll be rewarded with a child who grows in confidence.
