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Contemplating nursery is often a stressful thing for parents. The baby years fly past all too soon and before you know it, it’s time for your child to embark on their first taste of formal education.
The good news is that nursery for most children is a wonderful experience. It’s a social time, a fun time and a time for parents to marvel at how their child can adjust to new situations. This Montessori nursery in North London takes particular care to ensure all new pupils are introduced to the setting gradually. In this way, settling in is made easier.
Typical worries
Most parents have the same concerns when their child is about to begin nursery. Will they be on the same developmental stage as their classmates? Will they be behind in some skills? What skills are necessary and how can I fill the gaps quickly?
The most important thing to remember is that your child will pick up on any skills which they’re behind in once they get into their nursery class. Being around other children their age is a wonderfully effective way for children to learn all sorts of things.
Here’s a quick rundown of the skills which are good for children to have in their control when they start nursery – but remember, not all children will have these skills mastered.
- Reliably dry
- Good language – can answer simple questions and make their needs known
- Can ask for help when required
- Can play with other children
- Can control temper to some degree
- Able to follow simple instructions such as ‘hang up your coat’
- Displays some empathy
- Understand the concept of sharing
Again, not all children will have mastered these! Some children of nursery age still struggle with impulse control. This means they may still occasionally have tantrums or even lash out. It’s important to speak to your child’s teacher if you have any concerns.
How to help your child prepare for nursery
Begin to speak to your child about nursery but not too soon! Children this age have little grasp of time and if you start mentioning nursery months in advance, they won’t understand. A few weeks before they’re due to begin, ensure they get a chance to visit their new nursery. Buy some books on the subject and read them to your child. This gently introduces the idea of going to a new place.
Always speak positively about nursery – don’t put concerns in their head when they may have none at all! Most children adjust pretty quickly and those who need a little longer do get there in the end.
